That's not what I'm trying to say.

[ He lets out a dragging sigh as she self-deprecates; it's hard to listen to. ]

It's not stupid. You're not stupid. Your team, they're not what's stupid, either. Your family fucked you up. [ And this is the point in his rambling where he starts to sound a little incensed. ] Yeah, if it weren't for them, I bet you wouldn't be thinking like that, like... like you have to be perfect at something for it to matter, yeah?

[ He gesticulates a little helplessly. ]

You'd know how to cut yourself some slack.